My Helper Holds My Hand on the Course
In pairs, one child goes through a simple course of a bench, hoops and mats while the other is their helper: holding their hand, cheering them on and telling them where to go. It works on balance on the move and on offering and asking for help.
How to play
- We all walk the course behind the teacher to get to know it: low bench, hoop path, a mat for rolling and a cone slalom (2 min).
- In pairs: one child does the course and the helper walks alongside, holding their hand on the bench and cheering them on all the way (3 min).
- We switch: the helper goes through and the other child helps (3 min).
- Less and less help: first holding hands, then just one finger, and finally only with words (2 min).
- Groups of four do the course as a train, helping each other wherever needed (2 min).
- We put the equipment away in pairs, carrying big things two by two (2 min).
Rules
- The helper walks alongside and never pushes.
- If I need help, I ask: “Can you hold my hand?”
- On the bench, one at a time.
- When we finish, we high-five our helper.
Variations
Easier
For 3-year-olds, swap the bench for a rope on the floor and the helper always holds hands.
Standard
For 4-year-olds, low bench with mats on both sides, help by hand and by finger.
Harder
For 5-year-olds, help with words only, and the helper invents a new move for the course.
Adaptations
- Limited mobility: they follow an adapted cone path at their level and can be a helper giving directions.
- Autism: keep the same partner the whole game and post a picture showing the order of the stations.
- Visual impairment: the helper describes each station before they reach it and never lets go on the bench.
Learning goals
- Keep balance while moving.
- Offer help to a classmate safely.
- Feel confident asking for help when needed.
Equipment for a class of 25
- Low balance benches: 2
- Mats: 4
- Hoops: 6
- Cones: 6
Teacher tip
Put mats on both sides of the bench and stay right next to it yourself. Practice the phrase “Can you hold my hand?” out loud before starting: many kids find it hard to ask for help.
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